A welcome reward...

Happy Wednesday loves,
I am cream crackered from work, so happy to break up Friday, as much as I love my job, I need a rest haha. Today saw me arrive home to some goodies, I bet most bloggers got their Models Own stuff today, but hey ho. Is it just me, I thought the nail pens were much taller! They are so tiny, although very good, I have high hopes for achieving leopard print nails now.


In the end I got two nail art pens, a lip and cheek tint, Moody Grey, Matt Black, Purple Grey, Purple Haze, Juicy Jules and Scarlett Sparkle. Very happy with my choices indeed, did you get any? Today I also got my Hunter wellies, which Dey bought me as a treat for our holiday, he is the best :D (I do treat him, honest.)


I just went with classic black, as I thought they would go with everything. I've tried them on and they are very comfy, so happy I got the ones that adjust at the sides because they fit perfectly. Tonight I am just going to chill out and most likely head to bed about 9pm like the pure raver I am. But now I am going to pop in the bath and read my new book...


I'll let you all know if it's any good, I have a little treat for you this week before I go away on Monday, so be sure to check back on Friday for it.

|Gem Gem xoxo|

Aztec' you out some time...

You have to say the title in a sort of southern drawl, Dey's Mom came up with it and it made me chuckle so had to keep it. Bought this outfit yesterday from H&M for my holiday, Dey gave the hotel I wanted a nod so we will be spending a week in the Scottish Highlands from next Monday. Not especially a Scottish weather outfit, but hey ho thought I'd put some colour with my wellies.

I went in to find the aztec jumper I saw on Charlene, but it was much shorter than I thought and I don't like having a cold midriff, hence why I have tucked my tshirt in to my skirt. Whole outfit for £20, skirt was £13, top £7, bargain!


These outfit posts are getting more regular eh, maybe it's because Dey has a camera now and has turned in to my little photographer. What did we all think of X Factor? I liked the group at the end, think they will get through to the ol' finals.

|Gem Gem xoxo|

Lately...

Hey guys, long time no speak...well a week. I literally haven't stopped at work and I have been rather ill so the blog has suffered this week I'm afraid, but here I am eh. Sitting in bed all cosy and warm in my new snood on my day off, the weather is so awful in Brum today, like a monsoon. So I have been browsing the internet in bed with a cup of tea. Ordered myself some goodies from the Models Own sale, which is awesome, 50% off, yes please, managed to get 9 things for £24, woop woop. Then I ordered myself some nails from Charlene's shop, Dainty Nails, which you can find a link to in my sidebar; she is awesome!

What have we all been up to? I managed to squeeze in dinner at my best friend's and my Mom's this week, which was nice, then I have literally been working and sleeping, working and sleeping, so glad it's payday. Me and Dey are hopefully booking our holiday tonight, we were going to go abroad, but we went the travel agent last night, and even last minute deals are hella expensive now, so we've decided to go back to Scotland, but for a week this time. I found this hotel, I think it's beautiful, just got to wait for Dey's seal of approval now ;) Speaking of Dey, here are a few things he has treated me to lately...


Has anyone got the new glamour? The metrosexual article really made me chuckle when I read it, are any of your boyfriends really concerned with the way they look? What about using fake tan?


Last week I was contacted by the girls at GlossyBox to see if I wanted to receive their August box to try out, as I have always wanted to join, but was waiting for a more stable income and to see if it was really worth it, I decided to give it a go, as sort of try before you buy. This month had an acne facewash, moisturiser, hair protector, mascara and nails wraps in. I've been using the Daniel Sandler mascara everyday, I really like it and think it's great. I've decided that I will use the items and then put the ones I like in to my favourites for next month. I really don't think you can review a box of products without actually using them first. I'm a tad hesitant about changing my face regime as I always use Eve Lom, but I will give it a go I'm sure. I also really don't like the nail wrap pattern I got, it's snake skin, so not me. Did any of you get the box this month, what do you think?


As it's Friday, I will share a few blogs I think you should all give a follow to: Olivia, Fern, Jennie, Leanne.
Thank you for all your lovely comments on my photographic tutorial, I really appreciate them. There was one idiot who left me a horrible comment, what I will say is, if you already know about photography, the clue to what type of tutorial it is, is in the title...so don't read the rest. Ok, byyyyye.

|Gem Gem xoxo|

Photographic Tutorial: Part 1, Depth of Field & Bokeh

Afternoon guys, so after a vast response I have decided to break my photographic tutorial in to 8 parts. This week I will be covering depth of field (DOF) and Bokeh (blurry backgrounds). The first thing I'm going to say is, none of these tutorials are meant to be condescending or to a strict 'THIS IS HOW YOU PHOTOGRAPH!' At the end of the day, I am a professional photographer, meaning I get paid for my photographs. That doesn't mean I am the best photographer going, or I have the authority to say you are a bad photographer. It just provides me with certain skills that I can pass along to others, as I have experience in this field. I may have acquired bad habits, or not explain things properly. So feel please free to ask questions if you still don't understand something after you have read the tutorial. Again I am doing this based on settings of a DSLR, but most point and shoot camera's have these basic settings nowadays, it is just whether you are able to shoot on manual focus mode (MF) aswell as auto focus mode (AF) with your point and shoot. Again like I say, if you have any questions, please feel free to leave them in a comment below.

Right, the first thing I am going to kick off with is depth of field (DOF) many people confuse bokeh with depth of field, but they are not the same things. DOF is where you want your main point of interest to be in complete focus and the rest of your picture out of focus, creating a sense of depth and distance between the interest and it's background. The main two things to remember with DOF are, focus and lighting...

Now what I will say is, those little squares you see on your camera when taking a picture are there for a reason, don't ignore them, they have them on normal digital camera's aswell as DSLR's, if you pay attention to the squares you will find you will be able to take a better picture instantly. As you can see in the picture below, my square is aligned and in front of what I want the main focus of my picture to be on, the flower...


So the rest of my background becomes out of focus, and your eye is drawn in to the picture at the point I wanted it to, creating a greater sense of depth of field. Whereas if I had focused my square in a different position, like the picture below, the flower becomes out of focus, and the background in focus...


Which does not create good DOF and in turn creates a bad photograph. If you imagine your picture, and the view finder of your camera as a frame, it gives you a better sense of composition ( how you want your picture to look) so which makes the better photograph, having a blurry foreground or a blurry background? I'm sure you'll agree that a blurry background wins everytime. These same rules apply when shooting portraits and people in photographs, just set the main square on the person's face, and their face will be in focus and their background be out of focus. Although distance in portrait photography plays a great part in creating DOF, if you are just shooting your mate on a bench, the bench would always be in focus too, it would just be the background that would be out of focus. The best way to create great DOF is either in macro (close up shots) or if you are in a vast area and you only want to focus on a small detail of that area.

The main way I create DOF with my flower and nature work is by using the macro setting on my camera, which in most cases looks like a little tulip...


Either that or 90% of the time I shoot in manual mode (MF), I just find it easier now, especially with close up work as it really helps you pin point the area you want to focus on. Most people do not feel comfortable shooting in manual when they first have their camera, as it can be quite scary, but hopefully after these 8 tutorials you will feel more confident. I will be doing a tutorial on the benefits and hindrance's of both settings later in the month.

So to re-cap, here is another example of getting the right focus and creating depth of field...


In the left image I have focused my square on the front yellow flower and in the right image I have focused my square just a tad higher on the back brick wall. Are we feeling more confident?

Now on to Bokeh, in my opinion bokeh is quite easy to create once you know how. Bokeh is the way your camera renders out of focus points of light, making light the main source of creating bokeh. Now over the years I have found that the greatest source of creating bokeh is by shooting something in front of a tree. Now that might seem strange, but dappled light is a great way of getting a great bokeh outcome, because when you are focusing on your product/person/item, all of that dappled light because out of focus, creating bokeh. Other great ways are shooting things in front of fairy lights, christmas lights, lights from background bars and street lights if you are out of an evening, car lights etc. Although again, focus is a strict rule of creating bokeh, and you must follow the points above to create great bokeh.

Here I have shot a flower in front of a tree...


Because my focus, and my square was focused on the flower and not the tree in the background, the out of focus light has become rendered and in turn created a great source of bokeh. Now don't just stand in front of a tree and take a picture haha, you have to make sure that you hold your object in front of the leaves, so you can get the source of light you need to create your bokeh. Another great way of creating bokeh, is shooting something in front of a window that has been rained on, you can see an example here or even a frosted window, which you can see an example of here. It really is quite simple, keep your camera trained on your main point of focus and the bokeh will create itself, as if by magic. What I will say again is, close up shots work much better for creating bokeh, than longer distance shots, for example...


These two images were both shot in the completely same position, except the on the right is a more close up shot compared to the one on the left, creating much more detailed bokeh and again a better photograph. The picture on the right is a great example of showing you the difference between DOF and Bokeh, the bottom of the right picture represents depth of field and the top of the right picture represents bokeh.

Has this helped you? Please let me know if you have any further questions or you haven't understood anything, I am more than happy to go through things with you.
|Gem Gem xoxo|

Nature | In a snapshot


This week I will be doing a photographic tutorial, so if you have any questions you want answered, please leave them in a comment below. I will be definitely be doing something on bokeh (making the background blurry), as it seems quite popular, but anything else. Alright loves, hope you are all well.

|Gem Gem xoxo|

Gem this is your life 29


I really don't have many photos of my week as I have been so busy and tired. In fact I haven't really been online a lot the past week, I have noticed I tweet remarkably less lately. At the moment I am sitting at home, after not being here for three whole weeks. It feels quite strange actually, I have gotten so used to being in houses and most of all, having spent a fortnight with him, I have really gotten used to living with Dey. So sitting here on my own, with absolutely nothing in my fridge is making me pretty solemn *plays mini violin*

A few pics of my weekend and some other random pictures for you, that lemon tart was out of this world. I have been quite obsessed with my Pinterest lately, I tend to spend all my spare time on there, pinning things I love for a/w and ideas for the flat re-vamp. Do any of you have a Pinterest? Work is going great, it's just so hot, I end up coming home looking disowned haha!

Hope you are all ok and have had a great weekend, I've spent today catching up with my Mom and recovering from my friends luau party last night, not to sure if Hawaiian people eat lamb kebab at 11:40pm, but still it soaked up the rum. Hello to my new followers. Night.
|Gem Gem xoxo|

July Favourites

Alright loves, hoping you are all ok, well and most of all safe. The visions on the news and the violence around Britain is simply shocking, my home town has been ransacked and areas close to my home are starting to get boarded up and gangs forming. So I sincerely hope all of you in other effected cities are safe and your families are all ok. Today I bring you my July favourites, a thing I do every month if you have missed some...


First up is Topshop cream blush in 'Head Over Heels' very popular in the beauty blogging community, a very beautiful colour and both easy to apply with fingers and a brush. The only downside is, it doesn't last very long, maybe it's the heat I don't know. All in all it's a lovely blush and at only £6 I'd give it a 3/5.

Next up is Posie Tint by Benefit, something I have always loved but haven't bought for a while, so when I got my free one with Glamour I was a bit chuffed...Brummy word, means happy haha! I use mine as a lip stain aswell as a blusher, so for durability and the fact that it makes you look like all healthy I give it 5/5.

Third is my fail safe, go to always cleanser, Eve Lom. This 100ml pot is £50, now I know that is expensive but I have had this pot since May and you can see I have only used 1/4 of the tub. I think I get about two spots a year with this, and that's only if I have eaten really bad or I am severely run down. So worth the money and smells divine 5/5.

Finally is Missguided polish in 'Misunderstood' a really nice orange that looks great on your toes. You do need two coats and it doesn't dry very quickly, but I love the colour 3/5.

|Gem Gem xoxo|

Gem this is your life 28



I would make excuses for not blogging for nearly a whole week, but my life seems to have exploded and all my time has been taken up, and as life comes first ;)

This week I had a second interview, got offered a job, started a job and left volunteering, all in a matter of days. I am now a visual merchandiser, and have a 'room' with a great boss, and we don't really have to speak to customers, so that's great for when you are having a bad day. Which I have had a few of this week, mainly through chronic wisdom toothache and feeling under the weather.

I've been treated to dinner, and the Sex and The City boxset which I've always wanted, and today I am cooking a roast dinner for Dale's family. By the way if you are ever stuck for a recipe, head on over to PunchFork, it's now my new food bible! Go, go, go.

I have my July favourites, and a review coming up for you in the week, so I will be back then. Thank you all so much for my good luck and congratulations tweets, seriously meant the world.

|Gem Gem xoxo|